I'm joining Kat and the Unravelers today with an FO.
I finished two three-star books this week that I had hoped might be better than they turned out to be. Fredrik Backman has a gift for writing about the emotional intricacies of human relationships, and My Friends
is no exception. His usual warmth, empathy, and humor are present to
some degree, and there are several moments that tug at the heart in that
signature Backman way. The themes of grief, connection, and redemption
are handled with care, and he also wrote some interesting things about
art.
That said, this one didn’t quite hit as hard as some of his
previous works. The pacing felt uneven, and at times, the narrative
leaned too heavily on introspection and monologue, making it feel slower
than necessary. None of the characters felt fully developed or as
compelling as those in A Man Called Ove. Overall, this book was
too simplistic and saccharine for me. I honestly struggled to finish as
it felt like something had happened to what I remembered as Backman's
previous high-quality writing. Maybe something got lost in translation,
but as a US reader this quote seemed strange, “It really is a remarkably
bad idea, all this. Worse than socks in a toaster.” There are others
that are just as odd.
This isn’t a bad book by any means—it has
some touching and beautifully written parts—but it didn’t leave the
lasting impact I’ve had from previous Backman novels. Fans will still
find value here, but it might not convert new readers. Two and a half
stars rounded up.
Thank you to Edelweiss and Atria for providing me with a copy of this book. It will be published on May 6, 2025.
Rope by Tim Queeney offers an unexpected
deep dive into a topic most of us take for granted. I'm not sure I would
say that rope is "the backbone of civilization", but the author does
explore how rope has literally and figuratively held the world together.
From Ötzi's death from a flint arrowhead, to pyramid building in
ancient Egypt, how rope was used in punishment, and how important rope
was in landing Curiosity on Mars, the subject is more fascinating than
it might seem at first glance. The book shines when it leans into quirky
historical tidbits and surprising innovations.
That said, the
tone can be a bit uneven—sometimes breezy and humorous, other times
overly detailed or dry. It reads more like a collection of rope-related
anecdotes than a cohesive narrative, which may work for some readers but
felt slightly disjointed to me. This book is crying out for
illustrations! I often wished for visuals and diagrams to complement the
content, especially in the more technical sections. I found myself
searching the internet often while I read so I could picture pyramid
building, khipu, and ropewalks. Still, it’s a solid read if you enjoy
niche histories or just enjoy learning how everyday things came to be.
Not quite gripping from start to finish, but it was informative. Three
and a half stars rounded down.
Thank you to NetGalley and St.
Martin's Press for providing me with a copy of this book. It will be
published on August 12, 2025.
What are you making and reading this week?
Your striped socks are just delightful, Bonny! And while I could not get a skein of that gorgeous yarn, I did have one last skein of Must Stash Yarn that I pulled out and cast on a pair of socks! There is something deeply satisfying about knitting stripes!
ReplyDeleteI really love that richly deep yarn you started your Hitchhiker with and I am eager to see how you blend the next color in!
As always, thanks for your reviews... I was eager to read Backman's My Friends but now I am not so sure... hmm.
Hooray for finished socks! I'll be sure to inform Lisa that I'm due a commission, lol. Sorry to hear Backman's latest is a bit of a let-down. I always wonder if it's him or his translator whose writing I like (I wonder if the translator is the same for this newer book?). If you're looking for a good read with the same name, I can recommend My Friends by Hisham Matar.
ReplyDeleteI'm not reading or making anything right now -- my hands are a bit full! But I'm hoping I can introduce a little of both soon.
I love that HH yarn, Bonny, and hearty congratulations on finishing your socks! I haven't knit anything in so long, but I do recall socks are very calming. Those rows go by fast! I am still doing work inside my house. I stalled out, but as the weather improves, my mojo is coming back. I finished The Dream Hotel, and you were right, it was particularly unsettling in the current political climate, kind of like detaining and deporting people who say things you don't like.
ReplyDeleteLove the socks Bonny. And you are correct - the coloring does look like barn owls. Petit Poison dark is so rich looking! I'm curious to see what you do when it is time to switch colors. Thanks for the book reviews. Like Kat, I had been looking forward to Backman's latest, but now I don't know...
ReplyDeletelook at those glorious socks! A great striped pattern and super cosy! I love your new hitchhiker on the needles.
ReplyDeleteThat's a nice colorway, and I think your socks look great -- perfectly matched or not! Love that Hitchhiker color. So rich.
ReplyDeleteThose socks are fabulous! I do love that colorway and the length of them really shows it off. I'm going to miss seeing them in progress because I was always so happy to see them.
ReplyDeleteThanks! They made me happy while I was knitting them so I'm glad to hear that they made you happy seeing them.
DeleteThe Copycat Knitter here . . . still waiting for my yarn, but now I even more can't wait to get it! :-)
ReplyDeleteWhat nice socks Bonny. I love the soft muted colors. Mismatched socks are whimsical and fun. I'm happy to see another Hitchhiker and look forward to learning about your idea for a color change. Personally (with no research to back me up so this is an opinion) I think thread from spinning is more of a backbone of civilization. Every historian finds their own interpretation.
ReplyDeleteThose socks are great and I agree that sock knitting can be quite relaxing!
ReplyDeleteI love the latest Hitchhiker ... and look forward to the color progression ... just like I'm sure you're looking forward to knitting with lighter colored yarn?! Fredrik Backman is coming to a local book festival and I have tickets to see him (in conversation with Mary Kay Andrews, I think, which should be fun) ... I'm sorry the book was a disappointment. I'll be getting a signed copy and maybe hearing from him will add a star?!
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