I've had a bunch of these little orchids over the years, but I'm down to just two of them. I've never successfully rebloomed any of them ... until now!
Highly Reasonable
Striving to be highly reasonable, even in the face of unreasonableness. Reading, knitting, and some alcohol may help.
Tuesday, April 14, 2026
Happy Reblooming Day!
Friday, April 10, 2026
Friday Letter
A quiet thing at first,
no louder than a breath,
kindness passing hand to hand
like a small, steady flame.
Respect grows in its shadow,
roots threading under borders,
lifting what was hardened
into something we can feel.
Hope arrives without spectacle,
just a door left open,
a chair pulled close,
a voice that chooses truth.
And peace,
not distant, not impossible,
but here, in the fragile work
of seeing one another whole.
Sincerely and with love,
A Global Citizen In Search of Peace
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Wishing you a very peaceful weekend.
Wednesday, April 8, 2026
Unraveled Wednesday: 4/8/26
I’m happy to join Kat and the Unravelers today, with a bit of unraveling due to my own carelessness, but I'm back on track now.
I have been doing six teeth between eyelet rows, but I was happily knitting along when I noticed that I had only done five teeth between the last two eyelet rows. I tried telling myself that nobody would notice while I was wearing it, but I would know. And I knew it would bug me, so I ripped out a bunch, made sure to knit six teeth before I did the eyelet row, and then kept going. I'm just a little bit past where I was last week, but I know I'll be happier in the long run.
The novel’s central premise, that each woman in the Novak family can turn back time once, was undeniably compelling. Serle uses this idea to explore the weight of choice, regret, and the quiet, persistent question of “what if.” I found myself especially taken with the way this one-time power shapes not just decisions, but entire outlooks on life. Knowing you only get a single do-over would inevitably make you more cautious, or maybe more reckless, and the book captures that tension well.
The Malibu setting and the layered family dynamics added warmth and texture, even when the plot drifted into more predictable romantic territory. The rekindled first-love storyline didn’t fully win me over, but it was handled with enough sincerity to keep me invested.
I was quite taken with the idea of being able to turn back time once and how that might make you live your life differently. At times, I wanted the novel to dig a little deeper into the emotional and philosophical implications of its premise. The concept is so rich that it occasionally felt underexplored, especially when the narrative leaned more toward romance than introspection.
Still, this was an enjoyable read overall, thoughtful, easy to read, and anchored by an idea that lingers after the final page. Even if it didn’t completely align with my usual tastes, I’m glad I gave it a chance.Three stars from me.
Tuesday, April 7, 2026
Poetry Month (In a Way)
You might have remembered that April is Poetry Month, that month where several of us celebrated by sharing poems we had found. Sometimes these were centered around an author or a theme, sometimes they were just poems that we loved. We were careful to provide citations, and I (mistakenly) thought this meant we were respecting the author's copyright. It became clear that if we were posting poetry written by someone else, then that is against copyright law unless the work is in the public domain or you have permission. Using small excerpts (~ two lines) from other poets' work may be allowed under "fair use," but reproducing entire poems requires permission.
None of us wanted to be stealing poetry, so despite the fact that our intentions were good (solely to share and enjoy poetry), we couldn't figure a way around this. We decided it was better to not to do our usual celebration of Poetry Month, which saddened many of us, but sometimes you just have to be a grownup and do the right thing.
But ... publishing your own poetry on a personal blog is not against copyright law, so that's what I'm doing today. I read an article about Zip Odes and was intrigued. Invented in 2015, the Zip Ode is a five-line poem about where you live, written in the form of your zip code. Write the numbers of your zip code down the left-hand side of the page. Each number determines the number of words in that line. If you have a zero in your zip code, that line is a wild card! You can leave it blank, insert an emoji or symbol, or use any number of words between 1 and 9.
Lucky me! My zip code is 08822, so I get a wild card line, along with two lines with eight words. I wrote my own Zip Ode, focusing on some of the things I love about this area.
Home again
Friday, April 3, 2026
Friday Letters
Today I'm taking my virtual fountain pen in hand to write a few Friday letters. I've been to the grocery store, come across something unique and interesting, and had some reactions. You might, too.
Dear Utrecht Fish People,
I can't thank you enough for your fish doorbell! There is just something so undeniably fun about staring at an underwater camera, hoping to see a fish so I can ring the doorbell. I've enjoyed myself quite a bit, sitting with my knitting, waiting, and watching in hopes of letting a fish through on their journey to spawn. It would be a real accomplishment if you could teach the fish to ring the doorbell themselves, but until that happens, I'm happy to help.
Sincerely,
A fish-watching friend
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Last week it was Protein Pop-Tarts, this week it's some sort of meta Pop-Tart flavored Peeps? I'll admit that I was a little bit tempted to buy a box just so I could see how bad they tasted, but I'm fairly sure they are just as bad as I'm imagining.
I would also like to voice my objections over the Dr. Pepper flavor. Dr. Pepper is my favorite soda and it should not be tarnished by using it as some sort of marketing gimmick to sell your chick-shaped blobs of marshmallow. But if I do happen to see some of these at half price after Easter, I may not be able to resist. (But only if they're half price!)
A Dr. Pepper lover who only imbibes in liquid form
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I wish you a wonderful weekend, a Happy Passover or Happy Easter if you celebrate either one, and maybe a handful of just the good-tasting jellybeans!
Wednesday, April 1, 2026
Unraveled Wednesday: 4/1/26
I’m happy to join Kat and the Unravelers today with a Hitchhiker photo that looks much the same as last week, but if I had remembered to take a photo while it was still light out, you might be able to spy 9 more teeth.
I finished two books this week; one was a decent read and one was spectacular. Set in 1977 suburban Rochester, Lake Effect
explores a moment of restlessness that ripples through two families,
beginning with Nina’s impulsive affair and radiating outward into her
daughter Clara’s life for years to come. Sweeney is at her best when she
captures the quiet dissatisfaction of adulthood and the way a single
choice can fracture a family’s sense of stability. The writing is
observant and often wry, especially in its portrayal of marriage,
longing, and the stories people tell themselves to justify their
actions.
But this is also a book where nearly everyone behaves
badly, and not always in ways that feel illuminating. The adults make
reckless, self-absorbed choices, but what’s more frustrating is how
those patterns echo into the next generation. Clara, as a grown woman,
remains stuck in the emotional wake of her mother’s decisions, yet she,
too, makes choices that are difficult to sympathize with. Instead of
deepening the novel’s themes, this generational mirroring sometimes
makes the story feel repetitive rather than revelatory.
The title
is a strong and fitting metaphor. A lake effect storm, when cold air
sweeps over warmer water and produces sudden, intense snowfall,
perfectly captures the emotional climate of the book. Small shifts in
temperature lead to outsized, unexpected consequences, and Sweeney seems
interested in how quickly lives can be altered by moments of desire or
impulsivity. Still, like those storms, the impact here can feel more
blustery than transformative.
In the end, Lake Effect has
moments of insight and emotional truth, but it didn’t fully cohere for
me. It was kind of a fun read for me to see just how badly the
characters could behave, but not one that lingered much past the last
page for me. This was three stars for me.
I’ll admit it: I wasn’t entirely sure I wanted
to leave Olive Kitteridge behind. There’s something about Olive, her
sharp edges, her loneliness, her unexpected tenderness, that lingers
long after the last page. So when I opened The Things We Never Say, I did so with a tiny bit of reluctance, unsure if I was ready to trade her in for Strout's newest character.
But Elizabeth Strout knows exactly what she’s doing.
Artie
Dam is, in many ways, the opposite of Olive, gentler, quieter, more
inwardly unsettled, but he is every bit as real. He’s a good man, simply
trying to live in a world that often feels confusing and off-kilter.
Strout captures his inner life with such precision that his questions,
about marriage, about how little we truly know even the people we love,
and about truth and the things we never say are ones that felt much like
questions I've asked myself.
And that’s the magic here: nothing
“big” needs to happen for everything to feel enormous. A single
revelation ripples outward, forcing Artie (and the reader) to reconsider
what a life is made of, what we say, what we don’t, and what it costs
to keep certain truths buried.
What sets Strout apart, too, is
her ability to write about the current political and cultural climate
with honesty and restraint. She doesn’t grandstand or simplify; instead,
she lets it seep naturally into her characters’ lives, the way it does
in ours, through unease, conversation, silence, sometimes quiet
division, and being appalled and horrified daily. It’s one of the few
portrayals in fiction that has actually felt true. As always, her prose
is deceptively simple, clean, precise, and deeply compassionate. She
sees her characters clearly, flaws and all, and loves them anyway. And
because she does, we do, too.
There’s a passing reference to
Olive Kitteridge that made me inordinately happy, one of those small,
perfect moments that reminds you all of Strout’s characters exist in the
same emotional universe. It felt like running into an old friend when
you least expect it.
By the end, I wasn’t missing Olive anymore
(well, not quite as much). Artie Dam had taken his place beside her as
another beautifully drawn, fully human character trying to make sense of
things that don’t always make sense.
Five stars for a novel that
feels both intimate and expansive, and for a writer who continues to
illuminate the quiet, complicated truths of being alive.
Thank you to Edelweiss and Random House for providing me with a copy of this book. It will be published on May 5, 2026.
What are you making and reading this April Fool's Day?
Tuesday, March 31, 2026
Read With Us: It's An (Exciting) New Book!
We're thrilled to announce the Read With Us spring selection: Good People by Patmeena Sabit.
I think it's better if you read this debut novel without a lot of advance knowledge, but I will share the publisher's blurb as I don't think it gives away too much.
"The Sharaf family is the picture of success.
Successful, rich, happy. They came to this country as refugees with
nothing more than the clothes on their backs. And now, after years of
hard work, they live in the most exclusive neighborhood, their growing
family attending the most prestigious schools. Zorah, the eldest
daughter, is the apple of her father’s eye.
When an unthinkable
tragedy strikes, everyone is left reeling and the family is thrust into
the court of public opinion. There is talk that behind closed doors the
Sharafs’ happy household was anything but. Did the Sharaf family achieve
the American dream? Or was the image of the model immigrant family just
a façade?
Like a literary game of ping-pong, Good People compels the reader to reconsider what might have happened even on the
previous page. Told through a kaleidoscope of perspectives, it is a
riveting, provocative, and haunting story of family—sisters, brothers,
mothers, fathers, and the communities that claim us as family in
difficult times."
The hardcover and audiobook versions have a manageable hold queue at my libraries, so I hope that is also the case for you. I started listening to the audiobook, but decided that I also needed to read it with my eyes, so I bought the Kindle version for $13.99.
Kym, Carole, and I will be talking about the book, giving additional information (but not too much!), and doing promotional posts throughout April and May. Discussion day for Good People is scheduled for Tuesday, June 9, 2026 at 7:00 pm Eastern time, so mark your calendars. We'll ask questions on our blogs that day and then host the always educational and illuminating Zoom discussion. I think this one will be quite discussable, so I hope you'll Read With Us!













