Highly Reasonable
Striving to be highly reasonable, even in the face of unreasonableness. Reading, knitting, and some alcohol may help.
Wednesday, October 28, 2026
Unraveled Wednesday: 10/28/26
Tuesday, October 27, 2026
Justin & Jess
Justin and Jess got married last weekend, and it was wonderful. I don't have a lot of pictures; we weren't supposed to take any during the ceremony. I do have a few from the rehearsal and the reception, but to be honest, I was having too much fun to take too many pictures.
Jess' bridesmaids are three friends that she's known since childhood. Justin's three groomsmen are Ryan on Justin's right and two friends that have all known each other since elementary school. We had lovely weather but it was getting quite chilly on Friday evening. (You can probably tell from the long coats and hands in pockets!)
Monday, October 26, 2026
I Voted!
New Jersey has Early Voting from Oct. 24 through Nov. 1. I had an important engagement on the 24th but now I'm home. Once I unpacked and did all the laundry, the next important thing on my list was to vote.
I've voted by mail for six years, so this was my first time voting in person in a long time. I was really impressed with how well-run and organized everything was, in addition to the friendliness of the poll workers. They have really made me seriously consider becoming a poll worker myself.
But for now I'm just going to wait, with a lot of hope and considerable apprehension. I'll be back tomorrow with a bit about that important engagement I attended last weekend.
Wednesday, October 21, 2026
Unraveled Wednesday: 10/21/26
I’m happy to join Kat and the Unravelers today with my last (for a little while anyway) dishtowel finally completed!
Monday, October 19, 2026
Bit and Pieces: October 2026
I did a Bits and Pieces post last month, but since I'm not sure what to write about today, it's time for another one.
John has finally listened to my
Next Saturday, October 24th, Justin and Jess will be getting married. It's at a venue in northern PA, Tall Timbers Barn. Justin had very few opinions concerning the wedding but didn't want to get married at a fancy hotel or country club. Weather permitting, the service will be outside, so half of our family has been calling to ask whether they'll be warm enough. I don't know; dress appropriately! I honestly haven't had to do too much for the wedding, but as it gets closer, I'm surprised at the amount of manufactured drama. Weddings seem to bring out the the worst in people (and sometimes the best, too), but I've decided that I'm just going to smile, pay attention, and enjoy myself. I wouldn't mind if you sent good thoughts for a good time and good weather. (Maybe then the family members that want to wear sleeveless dresses won't freeze!)
Thursday, October 15, 2026
Books on Thursday
I only read one book this week, but it was a really good one.
Jack, a widower living a quiet, solitary life in his cabin, finds his routine turned upside down when he encounters an injured dog and then a seriously injured young American fleeing the Vietnam War draft. Suddenly, his home becomes a place of refuge, and his solitude gives way to the demands and complications of caring for others. Jack's daughter, Sally, isn't nearly as comfortable with these unexpected changes, and her reaction adds another layer to the story. Lawson understands that even well-intentioned acts of kindness can stir up uncomfortable feelings and expose differences in how people see the world.
What I loved most was the way Lawson shows people gradually finding their way toward one another. These characters have their own histories, disappointments, and private burdens, and they don't always understand each other or know what to say. But sometimes simply being there, offering help, or taking the time to listen is enough to begin changing things. The relationships develop with a naturalness that makes them feel true to life, and the emotional impact sneaks up on you rather than being forced.
And then there's Lola the dog! There's something especially touching about the way an animal can bring people together, offering affection and companionship without the complications that so often accompany human relationships. Having recently read another novel featuring a dog, I'm becoming quite a fan of the role a caring canine can play in a story.
I also appreciated that Lawson doesn't turn these ordinary lives into something artificially dramatic. Grief doesn't disappear overnight, family tensions aren't magically resolved, and kindness doesn't solve every problem. Yet there is hope here, and it feels earned. The novel is a reminder that people can make a difference in one another's lives through small, seemingly insignificant acts of compassion.
Solace in Winter is gentle without being saccharine, poignant without being manipulative, and utterly compelling despite its quiet pace. I was drawn into these lives and found myself caring about what happened to the people inhabiting Lawson's snowy corner of Northern Ontario. Sometimes a book doesn't need dramatic twists or larger-than-life events to leave a lasting impression. Sometimes it simply needs to remind us of the good people can do for one another. This one did exactly that, and Lola made it all the better. Four and a half stars.
Thank you to Edelweiss and Vintage Digital for providing me with a copy of the book. It will be published on November 19, 2026. There is a Goodreads giveaway for this book for the next week if you are interested.
Now I'd love to know what you are reading!
Wednesday, October 14, 2026
Unraveled Wednesday: 10/14/26
I’m very happy to join Kat and the Unravelers (even though there's not an official linkup) today with a finished hat. Ta-Da!
I'm quite happy with it, especially since it's something I've thought about making since the first one ended up with holes in it. It only took me 13 years, but better late than never.
But wait, there's more!
I'm still working on the dish towel for Jess for Christmas, but I'll admit that I am getting a bit tired of dish towels.
I was inspired by Sarah using STR from her stash, so I dug out the two skeins of Fire on the Mountain STR that have been marinating in my stash for 11 years and started ...
... a Hitchhiker. I honestly felt a bit sad after finishing the hat, but starting this colorful Hitchhiker cheered me right up.
What are you making this Wednesday in October?
Ravelry links:























