I've reached a place where I just don't know what to write about. Unraveled Wednesdays are always a high point, but after that I've only got some small bits and pieces. So that's what today's post consists of.
- Do you have a favorite mug? My favorite has a picture of my kids on it and I use it almost every day. Sometimes it needs to be washed or I'm in a mood, so then I use my second favorite one. My mother might be appalled as I was raised to not use language like that; even telling my sister to shut up was considered "bad". But I'm the boss of what I say now, and at 67, there are definitely times when I'm thinking what my mug says. I haven't said it to anyone yet, but I know that day may be coming.
- Kat had recommended the 5 calls app if you want to easily make calls to your representatives. I was all set to download it, but it's only for iphone and ipad. If you have an android like I do, the 5 calls people also have a web site that works the same way. I've used it twice this week; all I had to do was input my zip code, choose what issue(s) is/are important to me, and then appropriate phone numbers and scripts are provided. You could spend all day making phone calls, but since I'm retired and have the time at least I feel like I'm taking some action by making a few calls. It may all be for naught but it also makes me feel a tiny bit better.
- I have been considering deleting facebook and instagram, but just can't seem to bring myself to do it. I never post anything on either site, but I still have a fear of missing out on something that might bring me a little joy, like beautiful yarn. I certainly don't need any more yarn and haven't bought any in quite a while, so maybe someday I'll just do it. Edited to add: I just did it. So long, Mark Zuckerberg.
- Speaking of yarn, someone has really messed up the closet in the back bedroom where my stash lives. I have two large bins and a small one for yarn but somehow that has expanded to a plastic chest with drawers and a trash bag. My needles and patterns used to be organized in a small bin and a notebook, but someone has been putting things back willy-nilly, to the point that I have to quickly shut the closet door so it doesn't all come spilling out. I'm envisioning this as at least a day-long project to take everything out, cull the stash, needles, and patterns, and organize it all when I put things back. I'll be ashamed to post before photos of this mess, but if I can get things under control, the after will hopefully be a big improvement. Since I've written it here, I'll need to actually do this (sometime, no promises when it will happen).
- There is power in clothing. I've never paid much attention to
clothesfashion, but I wear what is comfortable and practical. In the winter, this is almost always some Duluth Trading overalls, a waffle weave shirt or turtleneck, and a Hitchhiker. I was looking through my Hitchhikers and came upon two alpaca cardigans that Ryan had given me for Christmas many years ago. I have been wearing one of them most days for the past week, and in addition to keeping me warm, they somehow make me feel more powerful; maybe grounded is a better word. I noticed this when I was making my phone calls. I don't think I will ever be featured in Vogue, but if it's good enough for Michelle Obama, Taylor Swift, and Audrey Hepburn, then a cardigan is good for me, too.
- My BiL, Bill, is home after his cardiac adventures at Cleveland Clinic, seeing his doctors at home, starting cardiac rehab., and beginning the long process of recovering and regaining his strength. Thank you all for all of your good wishes and healing thoughts. They do seem to have made a difference and I appreciate all of them. Albert Einstein said, “There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” This whole process feels like a miracle to me.
I hope you all have as delightful a weekend as possible. Being happy in spite of the news is a form of resistance and one that I think we have to try hard to preserve. Please feel free to share any bits and pieces and happiness that is going on in your life!
so glad your BIL is home! I know how you feel about FOMO. I do the same. I want to know...and every where there is a special someone I would not be able to see their posts so I stay on.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy to hear that Bill is home and doing well! I'm firmly in the camp of everything is a miracle, especially modern medicine. I hope his recovery continues to go well.
ReplyDeleteI don't know who messed up your stash closet so much, but I highly recommend listening to some good audiobooks or podcasts while you clean and organize.
Thanks for this positive post, Bonny. So glad your BIL is doing well. I second Sarah's suggestion of audiobooks while working on the stash storage. Have a good weekend!
ReplyDeleteGood news on your BIL. May his recovery/rehab be speedy and effective. Your stash closet sounds like my entire office. To be fair, Fletch has a lot of stuff in here too, but... Meanwhile I am happy because I finished my BIG sampler. Today I will stash dive in the stitchy stuff to pick out something new to stitch. The only time I go on Facebook is when my SIL posts (and I receive a notification). IG I look at daily, but not for long and usually it is just food related (or Margaret Renkl) (and funny note - spell check just tried to change her last name to renal - LOL). Love the quote from Einstein.
ReplyDeleteGood news about your BIL. I dumped all of my knitting stuff in January and did a hard sort and organize. It took a few days but was well with it. And good on you for hitting the delete buttons - I don’t use Facebook but can’t seem to let go of IG.
ReplyDeleteI think the bits-and-pieces blog posts are fabulous, Bonny. I love getting the little this-and-that . . . stuff . . . of life from my friends. I'm so glad that Bill-the-BIL is doing so well! You're right -- that is the stuff of miracles! I continue sending the good juju as he makes his way through recovery, which is no easy process, but will certainly be rewarding for him and his family. And, oh man. We just agreed to have our entire basement re-painted. Which means . . . organizing my yarn AND sewing AND needle felting stuff so the painters can even get in there to paint. (I don't wanna . . . ) And I love your mug. So much.
ReplyDeleteI think bits-and-pieces blog posts are indeed fabulous, Bonny!! First, I am so very glad that your brother-in-law is home! Yes, he still has a long journey but I agree... it is indeed miraculous! I think I need this mug... oh my... I am off to search the inter webs for it! (and hope that it is not only on Amazon! (and as an fyi... I read reporting yesterday that the calls to the congressional switchboard are at record levels! I had trouble getting through to my reps this week! Wooo hooo! I was also happy that the Tuesday's with Toomey ladies are back at it... Monday's with McCormick and Friday's with Fetterman! HA!)
ReplyDeleteUnlike my husband, who's been using the same "favorite" mug for 40+ years, I have problems keeping a mug in one piece, so now I cycle through a few! Unfortunately, FB is the only (or best) place to connect with some people/groups; I have built communities on both FB & IG and don't want to lose them (though some people are leaving), and I have zero desire to rebuild on another platform. Ugh. Very happy that your BIL's recovery is moving along! All the best to him.
ReplyDeleteI am always proud to say that I was permanently banned from Twitter and all Meta products ages ago for being a troll for the resistance. I don't miss any of it. When I want to lurk I go to Blue Sky or Mastodon. That's where all the smart people are.
ReplyDeleteI've been thinking about Blue Sky but I don't know if I really need it. Banned from Meta - good for you!
DeleteThis post made me smile several times. As you know, I am packing up for floor refinishing, and I have 10, count them 10, large totes of fabric, crafting, and knitting yarn and supplies. So you will get no shaming from me! I just ordered some new mugs that I think will make me smile in the morning, or at least remember the good times. I have been using my Less Bark, More Wag mug for years, but I need something new. I have never used Facebook, but I do follow a few folks on Instagram. I have been thinking of deleting it. You may have inspired me. Good for you, I bet you won't even miss Mark's Mess. I have gotten to the age when I have a summer uniform and a winter uniform with very little variation. I find it comforting most of the time, so yes clothing has power. I live in a solid red state, and I have learned over time that no amount of calling changes anything. So no calls for me; they just increase my frustration. And lastly, I am so happy for your BIL!! Yes, he has, with the help of some great healthcare, created his own personal miracle through grit and faith. It really does my heart good to hear he is recovering. Thanks for letting us know. BTW, I always enjoy your posts, so don't fret.
ReplyDeleteYour post is so honest. It makes me smile. My favorite mug is one that belonged to my Mom. I use it often and always thing of her. She drank a lot of black coffee. I do like mugs and choose them based on either coffee or tea and my mood. I have written some emails to my very Republican representatives. Calls might be better but it is like banging my head against a cement wall. The two senators are very condescending. I'm so glad to here your BIL is on the road to recovery. Indeed it is nice to have some good news. I wonder who has been causing such disorder in your stash. I think they have also visited my house.
ReplyDeleteLike everyone else, I love a good random blog post and this one is no exception. I'm so happy to hear that Bill is doing well and working on rehab. It sounds like a miracle to me. I made calls this week, too, and when I heard what my Congressman had been doing it actually made me tear up a bit to at least feel like someone is on our side. Happiness is a form is resistance is what's keeping me going these days.
ReplyDeletemaking time for a bit of catching up ... and wow you've been reading a lot! and I'm simply delighted to see another hitchhiker on your needles. Annie B. Jones is the owner of The Bookshelf in Thomasville, Georgia; I've been a fan of hers for years and was so excited to meet her in person last April. It's been fun seeing reviews of her book pop up on my social media (I'm not quite ready to delete Instagram - it's where 98% of my reading, knitting, and stitching come from). Also, glad to read that Bill is home. Indeed, everything is a miracle.
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