Thursday, December 8, 2016

To ornament ...

is to embellish, enhance, enrich, and grace. These are the words that immediately came to mind when I considered today's Think Write Thursday topic of writing about my favorite holiday tradition. For me, the holiday is Christmas, and the tradition, while not terribly original, is hanging two very cherished ornaments on the tree. Many of our ornaments are special and have stories behind them, but these two always crown the tree.


I've written about my first grade teacher, Mrs. Neusch before, but I'm not sure that she knew back in 1963 that she was beginning a Christmas tradition. She put up a tree in the classroom and our homework one weekend early in December was to make an ornament for it. I remember bursting in the back door after school and telling my mother about the assignment and all the ideas I had come up with on the bus ride home. My ornament was going to be pink, with sequins, glitter, and diamonds, and be the best ornament ever.

I don't remember the actual making of the ornament at all, but it's pretty clear that it is my mother's handiwork. No first grader could blow out an egg, dye it pink, and glue on felt holly leaves, sequins, glitter, and diamonds, but my mother did. It seemed wondrous to me that she had created the ornament of my dreams, and I thought (and pretty much still do!) it was the best ornament ever. Part of the Christmas miracle of this ornament is that is has survived, uncracked and undamaged, for 53 years.


The second ornament is the one that Mrs. Neusch gave me as a gift that Christmas. She chose a different one for each of her students, and she said that this one reminded her of me because the angel had blonde hair and open arms, and was reaching for the stars.


These ornaments are important to me because they are reminders of people that loved me, listened to me, and believed in me. They are also important reminders that people are always more important than things. My own sons know how special these ornaments are to me, but I may have stressed that too much when one Christmas Ryan told Justin to be careful because I might love these ornaments more than anything. That was terrible to hear, but a perfect opportunity to hug both of them tightly and tell them that I would always love them most of all. Someday the egg will break, and all the glitter will fall off the moon, but I will always have lovely memories of loving people.

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12 comments:

  1. I hope Mrs. Neusch has a special spot in heaven for all the wonderful work she did! Those ornaments are indeed beautiful reminders of very special people. (I also have a blown egg ornament that was given to me when I was about ten; it's still stored in a grapefruit juice can and amazingly has survived a half dozen moves and 45 years :-)

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  2. I think Mrs. Neusch was a pretty amazing teacher. It's wonderful and amazing that you still have those ornaments.

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  3. What wonderful stories - and memories, Bonny! And Mrs. Neusch? She was a true gem.

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  4. oh my! I used to make an ornament every year as a whole school assembly (small Catholic school) I remember my frustration and stress because mine didn't look as nice as the photo....I love your teacher and how excited you were!! Maybe you did blow out an egg?!!

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  5. How wonderful that you still have those ornaments that hold beautiful memories--my favorite ornaments are the ones given to me by special people I knew. Your 1st grade teacher was a gem!

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  6. I still have ornaments I made - ornaments my kids made - and extra special ornaments that I got from incredibly special people. Thank you for sharing this beautiful memory - and both ornaments are incredible!

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  7. You had a very special mother (and teacher), much like my own, and so many other women in my life. I love the tradition of decorating the tree! So many beautiful memories. Sadly, all of our family ornaments were lost, but you helped me remember some of the treasures we had.

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  8. Oh how beautiful!! I've a goofy ornament that I won in a first-grade spelling bee... it has not fared quite as well as yours, but I still hang it on the tree!! :)

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  9. This is so special! I loved reading about your treasured ornaments.

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  10. Wow, my ornaments from the past have not fared as well, but like you I do remember my first grade teacher extremely well for giving me or rather teaching me the ability to read. She was my husband's teacher also. Long ago, hmmmm?
    I got so tired of those "Dick and Jane" books.

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  11. I hang two ornaments first that came from my favorite great-aunt and were always my favorite as a child (really my entire life). Mrs. Neusch was one special lady and it is so terrific that you've got them. I really like her message about you and the angel. Spot on.

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  12. Such a lovely memory-the blown out eggs always amazed me. We had a neighbor that would paint them with a tiny brush, and she did lovely work.

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