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Friday, June 17, 2022

So Where Were We?

It's been a week here, friends. I think I left off on Tuesday with a wrap-up letter to Douglas Stuart about Young Mungo. Several of you thought I should actually send it. Even though that wasn't my original intention, I figured "Why not?" He certainly couldn't object to a book group praising his books, so I sent it to his US contact at ICM Partners, asking her to forward the letter to Mr. Stuart. I did get an out-of-office reply saying that she was traveling and might be a bit slow in responding, but I will be sure and let you know here if I hear anything further.

My view for 6-7 hours on Tuesday. 

Early Tuesday morning, Justin called from work saying that he had hurt his back so badly that he couldn't drive home, and could we please pick him up and take him to the ER, which of course we did. John drove Justin's truck home and Justin and I continued on to the ER. It was an adventure. Only patients are allowed to enter the ER, so I waited outside in the sun and heat for six hours. Eventually, Justin got called into a room (called the "Fast Track" room - ha!) which I was allowed to go in. It was all a bit surreal - the automatic doors into the ER were broken so they had to bring me in some secret back way, there were signs all over saying "don't drink the water", the Code Blue button in Justin's room was broken and we were instructed to dial 444, but there was no phone in the room. At some point, it just became funny. He finally got an x-ray, which didn't show anything, and he was discharged after seven hours with three different pain meds. 


I guess I can wait for some water (there wasn't any available at the front lobby check-in,
  but they were sorry for the inconvenience).

Okay, I don't anticipate a code, and we can always dial 444.

Oops, no phone. 

Wednesday was my birthday and Ryan made me a lovely meal, which was exactly what I wanted. I got a call from the cardiologist saying that they needed me to come back for some more testing, so that happened Thursday morning. It was back at the same hospital we had been at on Tuesday, so I made sure not to drink the water. I have another appointment with the doctor on Monday morning to go over all the testing I've had and see what the next steps are. I would appreciate any good cardiac thoughts you might be able to send my way.

Just a pretty lily hiding in Ryan's hostas. 

I'm writing this on Thursday afternoon after meeting with our financial planner and hoping that all the crises have been dealt with this week. Our 401k has lost 25% of its value since John retired in February, so we had to do something to ensure it would last a little longer than just this year. Justin is feeling a little bit better each day, he has probably learned that he should not be rolling giant eight-foot sections of a tree into the backhoe bucket no matter how strong he thinks he is, my heart has not stopped yet, and our finances are (hopefully) a bit more secure. I just had a piece of the delicious chocolate cake Ryan made for me, but don't tell my cardiologist. I am learning that life may be short, so make sure you eat chocolate cake when you get the chance. 

I have high hopes for a calmer weekend, and I wish the same for you!

14 comments:

  1. Oh, Bonny. That is A Week. I hope that all crises are now under control. And I am sending ALL the good juju in a nonstop stream. (I'm really glad you ate the cake.) XOXO

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  2. Oh Bonny, what a week you have had! I hope that you've now used up your annual share of bad luck and only good things are on the horizon for you. I will keep you (and your heart, and Justin's back) in my thoughts.

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  3. Oh Bonny! What a (not-so-good) week you've had and I am so very, very sorry. That hospital situation is pretty scary! But, I'm glad to know that Justin is feeling better day by day. I'm sending all the best healing juju to you and Justin. Do keep us posted on your heart situation (that's scary too...but comforting that the Dr is having you come in for an appointment rather than checking into the hospital!). Take care and I recommend a second piece of cake.

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  4. you're in my cardio praying thoughts! I will email you my cardio journey :) Happy BIRTHDAY!!! Hope Justin feels better soon!!

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  5. That's a lot of upheaval for one week! I am sending you all the good cardiac juju I can muster.

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  6. Oh my goodness, Bonny! That's a lot!!

    HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I hope everything is back on track ASAP!

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  7. That is a LOT! It is definitely time for some self-care. The markets will eventually rebound, but a dive right after retirement is alarming. Financial health, back health, heart health - you are prioritizing the right stuff. I loudly applaud the eating of the cake as part of your self-care, too!

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  8. OH, BONNY! You are having the same kind of luck I am these days. However, some of mine is house related and not critical (yet), but just no hot water, temps over 100, holes in the roof, no working oven, etc. I "think" I have my cardiac issues in hand with a new med, but the side effects are horrible. >sigh< I am sending you all good and sincere wishes for the money anxiety, Justin's back, and your cardiac concerns to resolve quickly and well. I hope your testing comes back negative with all my defective heart. And I am thinking only good thoughts for your weekend to be restorative and peaceful. Happy Birthday, Bonny, and many happy returns. XO

    Your hospital sounds like it needs a new maintenance crew, or maybe some money? That type of visit is NOT reassuring.

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  9. Oh my, what a week you've had! I will pray for some good cardiac news for you. Two of my three brothers have been through open heart surgery within the past 8 years to correct a congenital heart defect, so I have some idea of how upsetting cardiac issues can be. The good news is that they are both doing great now. I hope your son is feeling better and I hope that hospital gets some maintenance work done! Happy Birthday, Bonny! I wish you a relaxing weekend and go ahead, eat another piece of cake

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    1. Thank you, Debbie! It's felt like a lot this week, but I'm grateful that nothing has flooded or burned down, and nobody has any life-threatening problems so far. After a while, it even starts to be a little bit funny. We're taking care of financial health, cardiac health, and Justin's back health! (And I did have a second piece of cake this morning - excellent advice!)

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  10. Hope all goes well. It has been a week you've had.

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  11. You've had quite the week! My fingers are crossed they have answers for you and a clear pathway to heart health. Hope Justin's back begins to cooperate (PT will help--I promise!) Hope you hear from Mr. Stuart himself!

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  12. What A Week is right! Yikes! (but thank goodness for chocolate cake!) I hope this week is much improved!

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  13. Goodness gracious. I agree - eat the chocolate cake. I hope Justin's back has improved and I'll read on to check on you. Sending good thoughts from much later that all is well.

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