Today, on Poem-In-Your-Pocket Day, I'm sharing a Wendell Berry poem that I recently found at the library. It's a new one to me, but says so much, like so much of his other poetry.
To My Mother
by Wendell Berry
I was your rebellious son,
do you remember? Sometimes
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.
So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,
prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,
and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it
already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,
where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
I wonder if you do remember,
so complete has your forgiveness been.
So complete has your forgiveness been
I wonder sometimes if it did not
precede my wrong, and I erred,
safe found, within your love,
prepared ahead of me, the way home,
or my bed at night, so that almost
I should forgive you, who perhaps
foresaw the worst that I might do,
and forgave before I could act,
causing me to smile now, looking back,
to see how paltry was my worst,
compared to your forgiveness of it
already given. And this, then,
is the vision of that Heaven of which
we have heard, where those who love
each other have forgiven each other,
where, for that, the leaves are green,
the light a music in the air,
and all is unentangled,
and all is undismayed.
"To My Mother" by Wendell Berry, from Entries. © Pantheon Books, 1994
What a wonderful poem! It so captures the relationship between mother and child (or, more accurately, mother and teenager).
ReplyDeleteTruer words... thank you for sharing this new-to-me-also poem!
ReplyDeleteOh Bonny, this is beautiful! That vision of Heaven is one I'll carry with me ... what a perfect gift for my pocket - thank you!
ReplyDeleteThis is particularly precious to me. Thank you, Bonny. XO
ReplyDeleteLove this one Bonny. New to me also and, like Mary, the vision of Heaven is wonderful. Thank you for sharing. (Nice pic of your boys too!!)
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Bonny. Thank-you and those boys are looking good!
ReplyDeleteYour sons look so similar, yet so different - are their personalities like that too?
ReplyDeleteMany of your poems I like to save because they are so pertinent to me also. Thanks.
A lovely poem for all of us who choose to remember how we challenged our mothers and yet continued to receive unconditional love. Even at my age, I remember how I challenged my mother and how she loved me anyway; a lovely memory. Thanks for sharing this, Bonny!
ReplyDeleteThe love (and forgiveness) of a mother is a universal theme, and yet it is so personal. Berry says so well what we feel.
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely poem, thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Debbie!
Deleteoh Beautiful.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kathy!
Deletebeautiful poem and beautiful sons!!
ReplyDeleteWendell Berry is so eloquent. I wasn't familiar with this poem either so thank you for finding it. What handsome sons! You must be very proud of them.
ReplyDeleteThat's a beautiful poem and I bet it's just how your sons feel about you.
ReplyDeleteElder Son went through a very judgemental time in college, to the point that I really didn't care if I saw or talked to him. He has mellowed and apparently forgiven me for whatever he judged me harshly for back then. And I have forgiven him. This poem really spoke to me.
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