This is the wall in the park in Colorado where Ryan and I had a great talk. We had been on a long hike, and because John was still fishing, we sat down to rest and drink lots of water. We started to chat, and the conversation flowed easily from one topic to another. I mentioned how much I was looking forward to dinner that evening, as we had plans to visit an English pub-like place for their delicious fish and chips. Ryan commented that I should look for a fish and chips place at home, and I explained that much of my enjoyment was really due to having dinner with my oldest son while on vacation. The conversation progressed and Ryan eventually declared that he thought I should make an effort to try at least one new thing every month. Now that's an interesting idea ...
We've been home from Colorado for almost a month, and I haven't really done anything new yet. I tried to explain to Ryan that I've switched from drinking half lemonade/half iced tea to raspberry iced tea, but he wasn't having any of it. Due to Ryan's reminders during phone calls, I finally searched for and found a surprisingly close English brewpub and we I will be heading there this weekend. I've invited John, but he seems to be dragging his heels for some reason. Maybe one of my new things in June will also be eating alone in a restaurant!
I recently came across a women's archery course given at the end of July, and began pondering this as a new thing. Both John and Justin shoot bows, and I think I like archery target shooting, but I'm not sure. I have shot Justin's youth bow because it requires less upper arm strength, but it's really too small for me. I signed up for the course, so archery safety, recurve vs. compound bows, determining the correct draw weight and length for me, and trying out some bows will be my new things for July.
I'm very grateful to be Ryan's mother because he will push me (gently, but still insistently) to get out of my stagnant mindset and try one new thing. He's helped me to start looking at things from different perspectives and I'm seeing new possibilities. Your suggestions are welcome!