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Friday, April 24, 2026

Friday Letters

 

Today I'm taking my virtual fountain pen in hand to write a few Friday letters. I've done something that might have been dumb but need to correct it, found something small that makes me happy, and written some haiku. 

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So disappointing!
 

Dear Past Bonny,

Try to remember this saying when purchasing glasses, "Penny Wise, Pound Foolish". You had your eyes checked, got the prescription from the eye doc, and searched around for the best price online for your glasses. The last pair you got from the optometrist cost ~$800 (frameless with progressive Transition lenses) and since the old ones are breaking, you were anxious to find the same thing at a much better price. You finally settled on GlassesUSA, ordered what you hoped would be the perfect pair for $275, and waited for them to be delivered. What a disappointment you had on Saturday when they arrived, you tried them on, and found that everything was blurry. There was no way that they were even remotely acceptable, so you called to start the return and refund process. That will be a saga that goes on for a couple of weeks, but how best to proceed? Renew your Costco membership and look for glasses there? Try Walmart optical and see if they can produce a pair of glasses that work for a reasonable price? Or just suck it up and go back to the optician, get a pair that will be incredibly expensive, but will most likely be done right? Glasses are a tool that I use to see all day, everyday, and I can just hear my grandfather saying, "always buy the best tools you can afford". I think I have to heed his advice. 

Sincerely,

Present and Future Bonny

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Birds by Jane Werner Watson, pictures by Eloise Wilkin, published in 1958

To Whomever Might Need It,

I love sites where people ask about treasured childhood books they vaguely remember and other people give them possible titles or leads about what their childhood memory might be. Oftentimes, the people asking the questions have very few details other than maybe a rough guide to the plot and I always laugh when they say, "It had a red (or green or blue) cover". But what I really love is when commenters successfully identify the book. It doesn't always happen, but it gives me a little jolt of joy when it does. If this is something you might enjoy, check out @myoldbooks on Instagram. I've found several book that I enjoyed as a child!

From,  

A Lover of Childhood Books 

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Dear Phyllis (my SiL), 

Last Friday I sent you a limerick about your cataract surgery that I mistakenly thought was scheduled for that day. When you told me that your first surgery was really today, I felt compelled to write some haiku for the occasion. I kind of like them, and I hope you can see well enough to possibly enjoy them also. 

Soft clouds in her eyes,
Phyllis greets the morning blur.
Soon, sharp light returns.

Kind hands, steady light,
A veil lifts from Phyllis’ gaze.
World in crisp detail.

Brave Phyllis rests calm,
New clarity on its way.
Colors sing again.

Hoping you can see clearly now,

Bonny 

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I hope your weekend includes some good books and clear vision.

 

14 comments:

  1. Wonderful Haiku Bonny!! Both Fletch and I found our cataract surgeries easy, so hoping Phyllis does as well. And thanks about that IG site. Re: glasses. We've been getting ours for years from Visionworks. We always see our opthalmologist and get a prescription from her, but Visionworks has better prices and is fast. Our share of the price after insurance has always been reasonable (I don't get transition lenses, but I do have progressive).

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  2. Great letters again this week! Dale has gotten all of his glasses from Costco lately and we have been very happy with the service, quality, and price. It might be worth renewing your membership if you also shop Costco for other things. Good luck with whatever you decide!

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  3. Love the haiku, Bonny! I hope your SIL has a great experience with her cataract surgery. It is amazing how cataracts slowly reduce the clarity of your vision, much like putting the frog in a cold pot and slowing bringing it to a boil. I, unfortunately, had a "floppy iris" complication with one of my eyes. It happens when the iris falls down into the surgical field and quickly gets torn by the instrument. As a result, I have an iris that is damaged and allows a lot of extra light into my eye. Drove me crazy for a while, but over time I have adjusted to it, as one must. I have not adjusted to reading glasses very well, so I got trifocals after my last surgery. They cost a fortune! But as you say, it is something you use every day of your life in all your waking hours, so I bit the bullet. As much as you read, I hope you find a solution that works well for you. I may have to visit that website and see if I can find some of the Bobbsey Twin books! Love these Friday letters.

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  4. I hope Phyllis enjoys those haikus as much as I did! I also enjoy those "what was that book?" mysteries when they're solved. I hope your glasses saga resolves without too much trouble; clearly it's worth it to spend a little more to get the quality you really need.

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  5. First time ever a couple of years ago I ordered glasses online from Pair Eyewear. Price was so attractive I thought it worth a try. (And they’re fun!) I have progressive lenses and astigmatism in both eyes and they were perfect when I received them. FYI. I normally purchased glasses from an eyeglass store and paid significantly more than I did for these. And I love them!

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    1. That's good to know! Pair Eyewear was one place I did not check out, but I might in the future. I ended up going back to the optometrist and ordering some lenses that will go in my existing frames. The cost was better than since it was just lenses. I hope it works out but I may want a backup pair in the future. Thanks!

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  6. I'm very ashamed to admit the only glasses I wear now are readers of different strengths that I buy in bulk. I can't hang onto a pair of expensive prescription ones to save my life.

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  7. Your haiku is lovely. Also, I love the sweet little illustration by Eloise Wilkin. I have a soft spot for her artwork. I know they were very "white" but still so touching. I hope your SIL's surgery went well. Both my husband and I are grateful for the ease of cataract surgery. Before mine were ready for surgery I felt like I was looking though a glass of ice tea. Funny, my husband and I just had a conversation about paying for quality eyeglasses as we depend on them everyday. I hope you get yours sorted out to your satisfaction.

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  8. I buy all of our glasses at Costco. They will also store your prescription. If you travel there is usually a Costco near by. I have gone into new ones in various places to get my glasses cleaned or the screws tightened for free. Mine are always a little cheaper because I have a tiny face that needs kid sized frames. Costco selection is not quite as juvenile as my eye drs.

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    1. I got new lenses at the optometrist so that reduced the cost quite a bit. I may rejoin Costco as I would still like a backup pair. Thanks!

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  9. Seeing is so very important and it is very very expensive. I have no way to make it less expensive. My medically necessary scleral contacts are covered by insurance but not the supplies which are expensive as well. Love your haiku.

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  10. Tom and I have ordered glasses from Costco (with fair results) and from our opthalmologist (they do offer sales quite often). The glasses from Costco have always been very workable, although Tom had quite a bit of trouble getting his progressives properly adjusted. The big problem for us at Costco was . . . they usually only have one person working the glasses department and it takes FOREVER to get adjustments done. The opthalmologist is certainly more pricey -- but the glasses are always done right and it's convenient to get adjusted/fit. (We have no vision insurance or discounts. . . ) I say . . . get the best you can comfortably afford.

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  11. My last two everyday glasses were from Costco and I'm very happy with them. Prior to that, for a few years, I was getting them from Zenni, which I also like a lot... but I really like knowing I can go somewhere to have adjustments made when needed. Zenni is my go-to for "computer glasses," of which I have several pair because I can't live/work without them!

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